The Death of a Gay American Icon: Frank Kameny 1925-2011

Stephanie DonaldEven when Frank Kameny was still alive his actual place in history was much debated and I even participated in the controversy.

Was Frank a pioneer in gay rights or was he an assimilationist?

I’m sure that future generations will debate these issues and more but for now the fact of the matter is that I lost a friend yesterday on National Coming Out Day. How ironic could that possibly be?

Frank was a World War II veteran who, once discharged from the military, went back to school and earned his PhD and went to work for the Army corps of Engineers as an astronomer.

However, in 1957, Frank was arrested in Lafayette Park in Washington D.C. for “immoral acts”, photographed and released. At first it didn’t seem that anything would come of the incident and for many weeks things seemed pretty much normal.

But as they say, all good things must come to an end. A member of the civil service commission came around to ask Kameny about his arrest and Frank didn’t lie.

Perhaps when history reflects upon Dr. Franklin Kameny they will place him upon the mantle with George Washington and the story of the cherry tree because Frank couldn’t tell a lie and he paid dearly for it through theDr. Frank Edward Kameny years.

For those of you who take it for granted now, back in the 1950s, the government declared that homosexuals couldn’t hold security clearances because (wait for this ridiculous reason) because if foreign agents found out they could blackmail the person into revealing secrets because of their homosexuality.

Frank was fired instantly and spent the next 20 years trying to get that rule changed. In 1977 President Jimmy Carter signed an executive order declaring that homosexuals may hold even the highest level security clearance with no prejudice.

Frank stood next to Jimmy Carter when the order was signed.

In those years between 1957 in the McCarthy era when homosexuals were actually considered lower than communists, unless of course you happened to be socialist and homosexual like my friend David McReynolds, Frank met up my other good friend, Jack Nichols, and the two embarked on the greatest adventure two friends could hope for. The started the Washington D.C. chapter of the Mattachine Society in 1961.

In those years Frank met many civil servants who were terrified of losing their jobs because of their “dirty little secret” and during those years the police often didn’t even arrest people in gay bars but just photographed them and released them. The next morning those pictures and their names would appear in the Washington Post and the Evening Star newspapers for the entire world to see.

frank-kameny-and-mattachine-society-of-washington-members-marching-1970Frank became like a renaissance paralegal expert and confidant, friend and morale expert to dozens of people at the meetings of the Mattachine.

I guess one of the things I didn’t like about what Frank did was to charge these people for filing their civil service appeals because there was virtually no chance for those appeals to be successful and he never told those he helped (and charged them the equivalent of what attorneys of the day were charging to represent their clients) that he had never won a single case. He gave them hope when there was literally none for them and there are some people I’ve run into through the years who held a grudge against him for the money they spent in futility.

But I suppose that when one looks at all those years that Frank spent in selfless service to the gay rights movement that he deserved to get at least a little back from our community.

And selflessly he did give and fought through many of the hardest years that homosexuals existed in the United States.

While he, Jack Nichols, Lige Clarke, Barbara Gittings, Kay Lahusen, Randy Wicker and so many others marched and asked for others to march with them the thousands of other homosexuals who huddled in dark bars, gathered in the bushes of Lafayette Square and led double lives to hide their sexuality ran and hid while a few brave souls like Frank stood in the light and with a warm smile said, “Gay is good!”

It took people like Frank to show that if you stood up and admitted that you were gay to the world that your life wouldn’t come to an end. He was a leader in every sense of the word and an icon to everyone who knew him even to the end.

In 1977 his struggle to end the witch hunt against gay and lesbian civil servants ended with an executive order from President Jimmy Carter even if he didn’t get a formal apology until June 24, 2009 when John Berry,John Berry formerly apologizes to Dr. Kameny also an openly gay man, serving as the Director of the Office of Personnel Management, formerly apologized to him for his firing from civil service.

I remember having a telephone conversation with Frank one time about what might have happened if he hadn’t been fired from his job in 1957. It was one of those wistful, “What if’s?” ramblings about how things might have turned out.

“I wanted to be part of NASA,” he said with straightforward tone. “I would have pushed to be one of the first people to land on the moon!”

I’ve never been one who believed that planting the American flag on the moon was a good idea. I always thought that it implied ownership even though the United States had signed a treaty with the Soviet Union and other nations stating that just because we got there first it didn’t mean or imply any ownership of the moon but still, it seemed like a nightmare of Gay_is_Goodnationalism and I mentioned to Frank during the course of our conversation. He agreed off-hand but didn’t say anything else.

“What would you have taken to moon, Frank?” I asked coyly.

“I would have taken a copy of the Bill of Rights and a copy of Donald Webster Cory’s “Homosexuality in America!”

By Stephanie Donald

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+1 #4 Raj Ayyar 2011-10-27 15:35
Was Frank Kameny, (and many others like hin in the oppressive McCarthy-ite era of US history), an 'assimilationist '? Much depends on what is meant by that term. One could argue that the contemporary lgbt movement's current focus on 'lgbt marriage' is highly assimilationist and hetero-imitative, as opposed to the radical gender and sexuality-'bendering' of an earlier ACT UP, Queer Nation-style activism! Does every attempt at working to change juridical, social and other discourses on sexuality cautiously and 'within the system' count as 'assimilationist '?
--Raj Ayyar
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0 #3 Stephanie 2011-10-26 13:47
Quoting David Scott Evans:
I met Frank Kameny on a lil junket to D.C with my (then) lover George Ferencz. He had an IT related business conference. Jack (N) and we decided to all meet up there- after settling into some de rigeur drinking and non-descript gaybar hopping Jack suggested we visit Frank's out in the burbs. George begged off. I had told Jack any number of times I had only to meet Frank Kameny and I'd die a happy man...I meant this from an activist's standpoint of course; It'd be a lil odd to be a Kameny groupie...
Frank was a delight. Courtly, yet every bit the "machine gun" in rhetorical, movement bombast that Jack had described over the years. He seemed wonderfully typical of persons of intellectual fervor and passion... A kind host yet unconcerned (at best)with typical,host-ly affectations...
As I sat on a chair opposite Jack and Frank observing old friends and founding father's of the movement reminisce and small talk, I was struck dumb remembering a photo which has been circulated in various gay pubs, books, etc over the course of 40+ years...I asked them to switch ends of the couch and snapped a photo...a tribute to two pioneers and a nod to an historical rubberband:

http://www.rainbowhistory.org/nicholsphotos.pdf

That photograph and that moment was a tribute from me- a remembrance and a kiss for those two wonderful, wholly different men, with their enduring, shared pursuit of improving the lives of the gay public.

It's unimaginable to think of how long it might have taken for the tides, political fortunes of the gay public to turn sociologically and legislatively without their alliance.

Whether or not you knew him or met him, or you've just read of him here for the first time, know this: We all had a great friend in Frank Kameney.

Perhaps we, the gay public, might endeavor someday to get this wonderfully unabashed athiest/astronomer a yet-to-be discovered celestial body named in honor of our movement's stalwart star.

Peace,
David Scott Evans


Dear David;

What a delightful photo collection! I thank you so much for sharing that! It's like finding buried treasure!

Of course the internet has sort of become like that, hasn't it? Everything that has ever been posted on the net since the beginning is posted somewhere in an archive and it always will as long as humanity is left on Earth.

That encourages me to keep writing and keep the gay rights movement alive. The majority of the homophile leaders have passed into the ethera but as long as books exist and those impressions from the internet still exist and people like you and I who knew these wonderful people then we can fight to keep the gay culture alive and as vibrant as it was when Jack, Frank and everyone important was still young.

Time isn't important inside your mind because it can take you right back to when it all happened in a split second.

Thank you so much for sharing this, David!

Best Wishes to All,

Stephanie Donald
Editor/Publisher
LGBT-Today
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+1 #2 David Scott Evans 2011-10-24 09:23
I met Frank Kameny on a lil junket to D.C with my (then) lover George Ferencz. He had an IT related business conference. Jack (N) and we decided to all meet up there- after settling into some de rigeur drinking and non-descript gaybar hopping Jack suggested we visit Frank's out in the burbs. George begged off. I had told Jack any number of times I had only to meet Frank Kameny and I'd die a happy man...I meant this from an activist's standpoint of course; It'd be a lil odd to be a Kameny groupie...
Frank was a delight. Courtly, yet every bit the "machine gun" in rhetorical, movement bombast that Jack had described over the years. He seemed wonderfully typical of persons of intellectual fervor and passion... A kind host yet unconcerned (at best)with typical,host-ly affectations...
As I sat on a chair opposite Jack and Frank observing old friends and founding father's of the movement reminisce and small talk, I was struck dumb remembering a photo which has been circulated in various gay pubs, books, etc over the course of 40+ years...I asked them to switch ends of the couch and snapped a photo...a tribute to two pioneers and a nod to an historical rubberband:

http://www.rainbowhistory.org/nicholsphotos.pdf

That photograph and that moment was a tribute from me- a remembrance and a kiss for those two wonderful, wholly different men, with their enduring, shared pursuit of improving the lives of the gay public.

It's unimaginable to think of how long it might have taken for the tides, political fortunes of the gay public to turn sociologically and legislatively without their alliance.

Whether or not you knew him or met him, or you've just read of him here for the first time, know this: We all had a great friend in Frank Kameney.

Perhaps we, the gay public, might endeavor someday to get this wonderfully unabashed athiest/astronomer a yet-to-be discovered celestial body named in honor of our movement's stalwart star.

Peace,
David Scott Evans
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+1 #1 Randolfe Wicker 2011-10-13 05:04
A great review of Frank's life. I'd heard about his "charging" for help only recently. He lived in poverty and dedicated his life to working for the movement.

When you met Frank for the first time, his brilliance dazzled you for the first hour. He had a doctorate in astronomy from Harvard and it showed in the precision of his mind and thought. However, after the first hour, I always found myself mentally exhausted.

I wouldn't call Frank an assimilationist . He was cautious & proper. He (and I) felt we were representing all those other unseen 'normal-appearing' homosexuals when speaking out as "homophile" spokesman. We always wore suit & tie.

Jack Nichols recalls seeing me for the first time in the early 1960s standing on a staircase & having a fierce disagreement with Frank Kameny about the color "lavender".

I thought it was a beautiful color & that we should lay claim to it. Frank strongly disagreed. We were sometimes called "the lavender crowd" in those days.

I suspect Frank disliked the color because it put "pink" into blue and implied homosexual males were less that fully Maleness/manhood was represented by "blue".

Obviously, I won that argument. I mentioned our old disagreement to Frank a few months ago during one of our infrequent talks. He said he didn't "recall" it.

Anyone other than Frank, I might have suspected of avoiding conceding an argument. But I'm sure Frank was speaking frankly saying he didn't remember. I didn't remember it myself the first time Jack described that scene as being the first time he saw me. We became best friends for the next forty years.

I'd been trying to get Frank to agree to join other gay luminaries like Leonard Matlovich & Barbara Gittings in Congressional Cemetery where I will also be buried. He always avoided the subject and said he'd "think" about it. I even offered to pay for it.

A doctor had volunteered to give Frank free medical service with monthly visits but recently, Frank reportedly had stopped going to the monthly medical consultations. He told me how he could hardly walk a block without becoming winded.

I used my truck to move the contents of his Mother's apartment down to Washington, D.C. in 1997. He went with me to the hearings on cloning at the National Association for the Advancement of Science where every speaker was singing the same anti-cloning song from the stage.

I was the only one to speak up for an individual's reproductive right to clone his/her self. Frank spoke up in a strong voice--always one of his landmark features, you could hear his voice clearly above all others in any room/auditorium.

Frank simply told them that whether they liked the idea of not, they could not prevent reproductive human cloning---that, in trying to do so, they were like King Canute ordering the sea "not to rise", that the sea was going to rise nonetheless.

Cloning wasn't of interest to him. However, having him standing by my side and speaking out against the "group-think" in that room brought to my mind were were standing together again as warriors/allies on a new field of battle.

I do hope Frank Kameny ends up in Congressional Cemetery. He deserves to have a final resting place 18 blocks from the Capitol in a National Landmark. But, perhaps, he will chose Arlington Cemetery with other war heroes.
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